LESSON 4 - the kick me sign

LESSON 4 - the kick me sign

This is very important because we deal with these types of people everyday bullies and negative people, they are our pests, they are pretty much anyone and everyone we come across including yourself, you may have subcontiously been one yourself. and when we come across these people they can burden us and make us have negative feelings about ourselfs.

Let me give you a virtual situation as an example on how to act around these people in a spiritual way and so i can point out highlights on how these people work.
Lets say you are at school/work...and theres this 1 Person/group of people who just simply dont like you, they harrass you, they say negative things about you, they even say horrible things to your face, and 1 day they just make a nasty comment. congratulations they noticed right? now this comment made you feel insecure and humiliated STOP!! SNAP!! THIS IS IT right here is the part were we are going to step back and take a look in this situation....listen to yourself 'i feel insecure and humiliated by what they said to me' and feel it, feel that humiliation feel that insecurity..NOW this what you are feeling is EXACLY the same way as they are feeling and this is were the 'stick a kick me sign' effect comes in. 
Psychologicly The kick me sign is what this person owns, they hold this burden of negative emotion, and they no longer want it, theyve had people kicking them enough times and dont know what to do, but you attracted them to target you..WHY? you ask..well this is the question bully victims ask themselfs "why me, why am i the target, why am i the only one" well heres your answer, Its because you remind them of them! how they were before they got the kick me sign pinned so now it is your turn! HOWEVER...As a spiritual person you want to be the decent person to put an end to this cycle, and by doing so requires your empathy and your strong mind in being able to let go..ITS VERY HARD but anyone can do it, its as hard as trying to get over a break up...but it gets easy the more practice you have with this.
So when this said person makes this comment, understand his feelings and emotions (as mentioned is exacly the same way he is making you feel right now) and smile, not a happy smile or a fake one but smile with empathy and explain to them "look im sorry that you feel this way" and simply walk away, or you could just smile and walk away, take your pick, and whatever you do, DO NOT carry this negative feeling that is passed onto you because this could cause you to then start passing on, you want to throw it away and move on and continue with your life and realise that this person is just someone who is not a very nice person and later in life wont be forgiven by the pain he causes people and will pay the price soon enough. what you did there was empathy, you felt someones emotions, took it and let it go. and you need to practice this in every negative encounter or were you feel bullied or victimised.

This is something all parents should teach their children too. because bullying is getting higher in numbers and it all starts with how children are learning and what Parents and schools are not telling them, what parents and schools are not teaching children, that people have feelings and that words can hurt them, but people make these excuses of "but they Are too young to know" well make them know, teach them, show them, tell them, talk to them...a child will sit and listen if you make them interested in listening to you...it is easy i promise, ive spoken to many children as young as 4 years old about hurting people and they were my neices and nephews and they have grown up to be amazing empathic children and im just an aunty i only saw them at christmas, seeds can be planted in heads of people at any age! give them ways to remember.

comment below a situation you are in or have been in were you acted spiritually or did not act spiritually and how you could have....

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Naomi Gibbons