LESSON 2 - first timer

LESSON 2 - first timer

Now you have been out in the outside world as a new you, A Spiritual you, a different person...you come across someone hurling abuse at you, maybe this was someone from the past you never got along with, or you did something wrong to this person in the past...of corse you loose the spiritual you in this and your mind is wizzing with come backs to hurl abuse back at this person (Point scoring) you realy hate this person for what they are saying to you, you want to tell them what they are and what a picture they are painting! NO HUSH!! stop right there!! realise this is no longer you, what you want to do is think about the basics!!
i like to remember the 3 golden questions! these help me ALL THE TIME even as an advanced spiritual person this helps me even when im angry and it always gives me an outlook...the 3 golden questions are why? how? and when? these questions are to make you question, WHY is this person reacting so negatively towards you? i want you to think about the reason, their side of the story, and if you still cant seek this out this is were you look at your side but have some understanding of their anger. now think about the next question HOW are you going to respond to this situation? (this is optional it is also spiritual to also choose to walk away)think about how you are going to respond, if you are going to do this you need to realy think about approaching positively, maybe ask to speak to them in private and in a calm manner and if they do not want to then walk away however if they agree you want to show them empathy let them know you feel their pain and you apoplogise and would like to move on it is all about RESISTANCE which is what you will learn about later and this would be a great first step as you are new to this. first before the HOW? question which i should not have written before WHEN? realisticly but hey ho, life goes on....anywho...think about when the right time is to do your HOW approach. this is important because if it is realy that heated you dont want them to act physical towards you and with you being new to this, you are going to instantly react by fighting back and as a spiritual person this is not what we want to be doing, we want to avoid this.

Please remember your WHYS? WHENS? and HOWS?

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Naomi Gibbons